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lighten up, for pete’s sake. you are taking this way too seriously. most of my female friends were sex monkeys when they were in their 20s, 30s, 40s — then life changes, other things become more important, energy levels dwindle as do sex urges, which is NORMAL, and quite frankly, many of my girlfriends said point blank that they just didn’t find older or old men sexy, and that their constant quest for sex was not only laughable but undignified. and all of my girlfriends said they would not have sex with someone who had to use viagra! and it isn’t that any of them don’t like sex, it’s that they don’t want to do it with an old man and unlike men, older women just cannot be out scrounging up some young thing to drag home and hump! and the consensus of the women who were having sex with their old husbands was that they “endured” it for the sake of their marriage. now, i’m outta here because this whole diatribe on veiled prostitution is stupid.
I totally agree with 2bncr. Thank God for the ladies of Costa Rica!
Sounds like one of Marvillas friends is married to a friend of mine. The friend is a Farmer and very sucessful. Gets married to attractive woman and she immediately within 2 years gains 80lbs or so just from eating and no exercise. No medical condition at all. ame hateful type attitude. Does no work at all and has a house cleaner. She won’t even make Deviled eggs for him which is his favorite. Spouts off at gatherings about what a piss poor man he is. I have heard other women talk about her in disgust. I cannot see that he gets any benefit from the marriage at all. No emotional stability. Raised hell for a new house and got it. Her reasoning is”He can afford it,why not?”
They moved from a excellent farm and house into the city.
I thank my lucky stars that i never got chumped like that.
Yes most American women are VEILD PROSTITUTES.Is the illegal sex trade an important subject?
I am in no way attcking you personally. I am attacking your disregard for the subject of the illegal sex trade.
Vieled prostitution is at the essence, at the heart of the illegal sex trade. I have made my reasonong completely transparent so rebut it.
Don’t say its stupid because its well reasoned argument.
You do not want to engage it because you know it weakens womens ability to get what they want by with holding sex.
When prostitution is illegal, women have a monoply on the availability of sex. It strengtnen the no sex tonight card.
Legal or illegal. One way or another. If its illegal in the street to be compensated for sex it should be ilegal in the bedroom to be compensated for sex, Why the hipocracy?
It not a serious subject because you do not want to talk about it. Ok, then lets just drop it into the not a serious subject cauz marravilla does not want to discuss it recyle bin. Hey I think you are a great woman and person. But we are butting heads here because this is an important subject.
But when it comes to the subject of illegal and legal prostitution and vieled prostitution you have no reply because you know darn well that most women do it. Its wrong but so what. Well I don’t buy into the so what part. This is the era of the level playing field and this field is tilted.
oh, puhleeze — i don’t know ANY women like that. never have, never will. my friends are all highly successful; some are famous with names you would recognize, and we have nothing but disdain for the type of woman you describe who chumped your friend. but what was wrong with him for not dumping her big butt??? oh, poor baby. no deviled eggs. waaaaaaaaaah. what rankles our ire the most is that 2bncr puts sex on the same level as every other bodily function; for women there is an emotional component that men just don’t attach to sex. so yes, you guys need hookers! now turn out the light and go doe-doe!
so in your world any time a man wants to stick it to a woman she should submit whether she wants to or not, and that somehow not wanting “it” 24/7 makes her manipulative and a veiled prostitute. oh, boy. in my world, i have girlfriends who have had boyfriends or husbands who did the same thing to them; men who saw my friends as meal tickets and a path to idleness if they just screwed her well enough. when a woman makes a mil a year or more you’d be shocked at the morals of the men who crawl out of the woodwork and use sex as a tool and weapon to get what they want, which is their money! so stop whining and thinking you poor guys have a corner on the market for being manipulated. it works both ways, albeit not in most social circles. and don’t start on that rant about how women should stay home and be women and cater to their man! that works for women who have nothing to contribute to society; it’s a futile argument when the woman can create something of enduring beauty or usefulness. and remember, waaaaaay back when there was a time when women were in power and had influence and were respected for their minds, their intellectual prowess, and their cultural contributions, and then came the dominator society and look where we are today!! and quite frankly, i think your argument is specious!
[quote=”maravilla”]oh, puhleeze — i don’t know ANY women like that. never have, never will. my friends are all highly successful; some are famous with names you would recognize, and we have nothing but disdain for the type of woman you describe who chumped your friend. but what was wrong with him for not dumping her big butt??? oh, poor baby. no deviled eggs. waaaaaaaaaah. what rankles our ire the most is that 2bncr puts sex on the same level as every other bodily function; for women there is an emotional component that men just don’t attach to sex. so yes, you guys need hookers! now turn out the light and go doe-doe![/quote]
He hasn’t dumped her big butt because it will cost him about 5 million. Lot’s cheaper to just go fishing in Costa Rica.
The cause of the sex trade is male immaturity and economic oppression of women. Any young male who solicits sex for money has one or more of any number of mental and emotional problems the most likely of which is a severe inferiority complex and any older male who solicits sex for money is either sexually addicted or also has self respect issues…ie; lack of emotional maturity. As as I said before, older men chasing younger women would be comical if it were not so sad.
Sex for recreation is no more significant than a bowel movement and not even necessary whereas a bowel movement is. Since some men inflate the importance of sex beyond its actual significance, it should be expected that some women will take advantage of this world view imbalance and profit from it. If you’re going to be stupid, expect to pay.
[quote=”maravilla”]so in your world any time a man wants to stick it to a woman she should submit whether she wants to or not, and that somehow not wanting “it” 24/7 makes her manipulative and a veiled prostitute. oh, boy. in my world, i have girlfriends who have had boyfriends or husbands who did the same thing to them; men who saw my friends as meal tickets and a path to idleness if they just screwed her well enough. when a woman makes a mil a year or more you’d be shocked at the morals of the men who crawl out of the woodwork and use sex as a tool and weapon to get what they want, which is their money! so stop whining and thinking you poor guys have a corner on the market for being manipulated. it works both ways, albeit not in most social circles. and don’t start on that rant about how women should stay home and be women and cater to their man! that works for women who have nothing to contribute to society; it’s a futile argument when the woman can create something of enduring beauty or usefulness. and remember, waaaaaay back when there was a time when women were in power and had influence and were respected for their minds, their intellectual prowess, and their cultural contributions, and then came the dominator society and look where we are today!! and quite frankly, i think your argument is specious![/quote]
I didn’t feel that i was whining at all. You are using the same old lines that women hide behind Yes i agree with you that there are men that do the same but that is on a much smaller scale and it is wrong just as well. For myself i have learned to deal with it.I Just go to the DelRey and say NEXT!
This should be simple to understand but, as with most addicts, admitting the addiction is difficult. Demand (sex or drugs)creates a market (addicts) and there are always business people (prostitutes or dealers) to satisfy market demand (addicts).
Sexual contact is not a health requirement and it is not even a requirement for a healthy marriage. Period. This is especially true for older adults. If you feel that you need it so badly and cannot get it in a natural, normal way (marriage), you may be an addict. Some societies accommodate this addiction. Costa Rica does.
Wow, sounds like a bunch of very unhappy people. I would contend that sex is a very important part of a relationship. Having been married for over 30 years I believe the intimacy in sharing yourself with each other fosters and strengthens a relationship. It’s why we walk the beach holding hands, placing our arms around each other, kissing each other good night and good morning. It doesn’t come easy as you age. You have to work at being healthy and active to continue those feelings and urges. If all of your 50+ plus girlfriends think it’s disgusting to have to make love with their partner, they may need more than some hormonal therapy. It sounds like more than one thing has dried up inside.
it’s not that they necessarily find it disgusting — just overrated and unnecessary, and when a man gains a bunch of weight, loses his hair, gets flabby, or has to pop a pill to get it up, well, most of the women i know just don’t find that sexy! taking hormones to continue an activity that naturally diminishes as you get older is just so bloody stupid — especially when those hormones increase your cancer risk. we do get a good giggle about these old farts drooling over some young thing they think they can bag like a wild animal. yes, those men should go to the Del Rey! as sprite said, it would be funny if it weren’t so pathetic! and oh, by the way, you can have intimacy without sex.
This is a matter of relative importance and one should not confuse sexual intercourse with physical affection. This thread is about paying for sex, not about how couples develop and maintain interpersonal relationships.
I have been married for 29 years to the same woman. I do not feel that she is a prostitute practicing “veiled prostitution” in exchange for intimacy. That would be the mind set of a frustrated sex addict who is probably pestering his wife for constant gratification. Such a person needs therapy to be brought back to a more natural and peaceful state of mind…or perhaps he needs to find a similarly disturbed female.
Sad Sprite, very sad. Marrivilla, prostitution is not good or bad it just is, My point which you or sprite do not address is that making it illegal furthers the illegal sex trade. And that it is hypocritical to make it illegal and not prosecute women (or men) who do it at home. Legal in the street and legal at home or illegal in the street and illegal at home.
And yes some men get breast cancer but by inlarge it is a womans diease, The same applies to prostituion, The vast majority or prostitute are women, vields or not. Its a womans disease. The jails would be full if woemen were charged with prostitution for exchanging sex for reward, You know it. So don’t play coy. Sprite you know it too. BTW what are your views about legal or illegal prostitution. Should it be….
BTW it diminishes your point to play the picking on women card. Depending on your POV for better or worse women aint what they used to be.
Versatile regarding your friend I have known many similar cases and that the marry for money and divorce them for more is common. I oerheard a woman gabbing in the bathroom that she was getting older and she had to marry her fortune soon or forget it,
A good friend of mine married and divorced and then married the same soon to be rich man again. She called me to give me the good news and instead of saying how happy she was to reunite their family (with one child) she led with this. “I just secured my financial future.”
If you don’t agree that the majority of women do not asses a man finances before they date him then you may as well look up at the blue sky and tell me that it is pink.
I know a woman that says she is a good house keeper. Every time she gets divorced she keeps the house!:D
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