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haha. Hey It is what it is, Doing biz here can make anyone nautious. CR is a dam hard place to do biz. Its great for other things but to come here to make money is way differnt than comming here to spend money. Now I like San Jose because I am one of those persons that has been tropicalized. I go back to the uS and its wierd. Had someone stay 10 days to visit lately and they kept saying, but everything is so run dowm. Its like a beautiful woman, you doný see the beauty any more after about 6 months. Same with a homely woman. if you can get througnh the first six months than you can actually find her actions attractive. So I have been told HAHA
San Jose is like that for me. I find the people there never boring and that is why I like it for the drama and there is plenty of it. Is it dirty, appears so. Do I like it bçnitty gritty… yes maam. If you are the kind that comes here to stay in your house and replicate your standard of living for cheaper than you will never appreciate san jose one because you won´t learb Spanish. San Jose without spanish is like a brothel without money. You won´t get it! Sorry but I loved the analogy on many differernt levels. Anyways warts and all I love it. To do biz in Costa rica is a challenge and I would reccomand that middle america come here to spend money but not to make it. If you are coming here to make money 9 times out of 10 you are coming for the wrong reason. Come to play not to work and you will do Ok as this place is verflowing with adult children. It literalyy a country of çhildren playing grown up games! yeah lets party.
I have to agree with Scott. I have been guilty of whining here and complaining so I have refrained because as wagoneer said, life is what you make it. So true.
You have to have an agenda to start a blog right. What would my agenda be. Trying to get peoples attention, and then make them think seems to rub people wrong. Most think you have to agree to have anything in common. People are so thin skinED and full of precived self importance that they become unrealistic in thier world views. Its the world according to thier percived reality, not to a broader reality.
I try to be real in a broad sense but you are one of the few that appreciate it or at least take the time to express it.
I have had great mentors in my life and theye were not gifts. I had to seek them. One great mentor told me that you get more of what you appreciate. So you have to not only appreciate things in your head, but you have to express that appreciation.
People are so worried about offending people because of the Oh I am offended card that they dont want to communicate anymore. Its like writing here. People really belive this internet thing is a relationship like sitting in front of someone and speaking in their prescence. Its s fricking screen and a keyboard. Get real.
You are having a relationship with a machine. So are you going to let the machine flatter or offend you. Its a machine who really cares yet people attach all kinds of signifigance to it as if all this crap is so important, and they actually get offended or complimented. There is a huge difference between writing something on line and saying it to someone infront of them. Many little two faced cowards hide behind their machine and assasinate good peole character. There is a rather well known Costa Rica personality that uses fake names to assasinate his percivied competitors character. He uses email handles like rolli muzak and Isabel alvarez. I checked his IP adresses and found out who he is but that another story. Scott understands about this kind of thing. As Eienstien said great souls are ridiculed by mediocre minds 000 something like that anyways.
Can you learn fromm a computer. Yes. If your are astute you can learn from anything. Is it a human relationship. Hell no. Its a realionship with a machine and it furthers peoples percived self importance and that is why you get skewed opinions that are based on self perception rather than perciving the world at large, or what is outside of you rather than what is inside of you.
IF YOU WANT TO COEXIST SUCESSFULLY WITH PEOPLE YOU HAVE TO PERCIVE WHAT IS OUTSIDE OF YOU. iF YOU WANT TO COEXIST WITH YOUR COMPUTER YOU ONLY NEED TO HAVE A PERSONAL PERCEPTION OF THE WORLD. oNE IS BROAD AND SELFLESS THE OTHER IS NARROW AND SELFISH )SORRY ABOUT HE CAPS i AM IN AN INTERNET CAFR AND THE CAPS ARE STUCK ON.
Maravilla, do you or would you use the Caja?
Here is the link to a bad caja experience documented, amcostarica.com/070711.htm#31. However i must add that there are also positive Caja experience in the same online newspaper. So which is it? Good or bad? Niether. Like all of life you make your bet and take your chance.
My bet is not with the Caja. Other may be with the Caja. On a bad day the best hospital gets it wrong. On a good day the Caja gets it right.
Sooo.. we all have to place our bets. How many expats here will use the Caja? I pay for it I would like to get a benifit for paying monthly… but I just feel that being the only american in the room is wierd.
I have also experienced a lot of ethnocentric behavior and financial envy here.
Now wait a second. Ihave also experienced some wondeful relationships here, so don’t go thinking I am anti costa rica. I still live here don’t I? so if you added it all up I chose to stay.
I just don’t see the Caja system as a perk.I see the weather and the warm ocean and my neighborhood resturant and mt expat buddies and my Tico neighbors (some of them anyways) as a perk. I see lower cost of living as a perk, and traditional lifestyles as a perk. I see low wages as a perk (but I must say I perfer Nica labor). They woek harder talk less and are not as clever (on the divious side) and not ethnocentric.
Also if you are single and want to play its great here. But if you want to mary I would not recommend it (again there are always exceptions and this is my opining only).
That said there are many perks here I just don’t fid the caja to be one and i would not advertise costa rica as a place with cheap reliable health care, but then again it all relative as in compared to what other health care system.
I am glad to hear that your experiences were good. Yes life is what you make of it. It is also how you handle what happens to you. I handled it fine. Completely accepted my experience and have made what I cansider to be needed adjustments in my personal health strategy. I am just leary about hospital in CR after my experience. yes I know that it could happen anywhere, but the overall disinterest worries me. yes you can say its a cultural thing, but I want to feel as if peiole in charge of my health services care. I have never experienced that nonchalant attitude in the US. My first time in a private hospital 10 years ago in CR was completely differnt. BTW regarding the new giant Heredia hospital I would much rather go to older clean facility well staffed facility than modern big building understaffed and poorly managed.
I appreciate Wes’ input and joy de vive here in Costa Rica. Really do. Anyone that moves here and takes in kids and looks at the bright side is good people in my book. I, from many years of experience here have seen some terrible messes and injustices that of course may happen in the US but based on the number of people, per capita speaking, I don’t see CR easily surpassing the US in incompetence on almost every level. Now I am not trying to compare CR to the US. However when people do they need to remember that CR has a minute population. The instances of professional mal practice here is very high speaking per capita. I have never been injured in many years going to doctors in the states and cleanliness levels were always very high. I went to what some say is the best private hospital in Costa Rica for an emergency operation and I was injured by the anesthesiologist.
I tried the caja because fairly recently I had to start paying for it. Well I went for an appointment and had to wait in a line at 5 am. So if you are a US citizen, it seems very wierd to wait in a line to get your appointment (outside mind you) and then return for the appointment. Be that as it may, I was not impressed with the general practitioner I saw. I made an appointment for a blood test. I received the results which were way high across the board. The GP was quick to start admonishing me about my diet and prescribing me medications. I said to her that in the US when test come back so abnormal they are usually ran again. So she acquiesced to my idea and guess what – all is normal. Now, is this a big deal. Well, kind of. I think the biggest revelation is the cultural norm here for going the route of least resistance rather than being thorough. I see this in the legal and medical and semi professional services here plus in construction. Excellence does not have the same importance as it does in the US. Thoroughness seems unheard of.
Just get it done (which it really isn’t, but because you stopped you can call done even when its not done right) and then “next” is the attitude here. And that may be for a number of different reasons. Regardless I want excellence when it comes to my health. I understand that many who come here cannot afford high end medical insurance. So, I kind of feel bad that they cannot, but many people that come here can. So they should not in my opinion use the caja because the next story sums up my experience with the Caja emergency care.
Took a sip of juice and felt a scratch in my throat. Looked at the glass and the rim was chipped, The chunk was swallowed. How many times have I told the crap for brains maid to do it my way, but no it’s the hurry up and get it done incorrectly way she is used to. She was fired because I have told her many times not to put glasses rim down on the tile. So now the know it all gringo has to suffer because “we know best” now jobless Tica is stubborn.
Emergency time. Go to clinic. Wait. Sent to new Heredia hospital. Beautiful building, new facility, walk in and there was disorganization as if they were being inundated from a disaster.
People walking around not knowing where to go, other people sitting behind desks smug and bored. No empathy for patients. You don’t know what is going on?, ah, so what just get out of my line and go over there and someone will figure it out eventually. I wanted to start helping people myself. I was appalled. If it was my business I would have fired everyone on the spot. Compassionless. I finally figured out where I was to be. Then the doctors walked out. Yes, they all left at the same time. Jovial, as if there was no suffering or urgency around them. They were in another world. They did not look tired or over worked or frazelled as an American doctor would have considering the circumstances and patient load. Amazing. It was as if they were working at McDonalds and their doctoring was as significant as filling a burger order. I walked into the new state of the art bathrooms and the trash cans that Ticos use for their toilet paper had not been emptied and there was another trash can full worth of used toilet paper piled next to and around the trash can and many cotton balls with blood on them and a stink to boot.
After more than two hours there, I informed that there was no eye ear and nose doctor there (it took two hours to figure out who is the staff?) and I was taken by ambulance to Hospital Mexico. Mind you this whole odyssey started at 6 pm and now its 10 pm. A nurse road with me. Now with all that was going on why the hell would anyone leave to accompany me to the hospital, she was needed there desperately. The driver invited her and she went, and they happily conversed the entire way. I got to Hospital Mexico to find a broken down dirty facility with a child doctor making jokes and having a great time while people were hurting all around me. 11 pm passed. Nothing. 12pm passed. Nothing.
I went to the little prima donna in training and said I was leaving (I had had it and was on my way to private care totally exhausted). He said wait you have to sign a paper saying that I was refusing the non-existent care. So be it, I guess that rattled some feathers as I was told the eye ear and nose doctor would see me now, its 12:30 am. She sprayed some numbing stuff down my throat and put her finger there and felt a piece of glass lodged in my lower tongue / throat area. She got a long pair of prongs to grab it. She could not. Again, she put her finger down my throat to feel it and dislodged it and down it went. I don’t know if she was trying to get rid of me or what. I was disgusted. They drove me back. I insisted on taking a taxi back as they had to call the driver so I had to wait. They said they would get in trouble if they returned without me, so I waited, The nurse who accompanied us sat on her but the whole time. It was the merry crew all the way back to Heredia Hospital where I got in my car and drove home. Almost 2 am.
That was my experience with emergency Caja care. Yes I am still alive but I was thoroughly convinced that nobody was taking any of this seriously except the patients.
Maybe your experience differs, but that was mine. Any how who I will never use the caja for anything unless I have no other choice. And by the way, there were no other foreigners there and all the Ticos were looking at me like “what the hell are you doing here?” Not the worst night of my life but in the top 50.
Is she raising them to respect men? That is the issue my dear. Is she raising them without a father in the house?
I so want to say lets agree to disagree. The problem I know deep down inside you totally agree, but you can’t abandon the sisterhood. That is a shame. Not responding to my logic and statments means you comply with them.
Illegal prostitution futhers the sex trade.
Most or many women use sex for personal gain of some kind (vailed prostitution).
Legal prostitution diminished the ability of women to use the “no sex tonight” card as leverage.
But -regardless of the thrving illegal sex trade you do not want vailed prostitution to be illegal.
But you do want physical violence against women to be illegal but you do not want emotional violence (vialed prostitution) to be illegal.
Just answer yes or no as you are the only woman on this fourm with the guts enough to even talk about it. And I appalud you for yiur participation, no matter if you think I am being harsh.
I think I am being real. It not anti woman – its the way things are and I think that should change.
BTW where did I say or even imply that i want a young sex slave for free. Do you even read what you write or are you just continuing to be inflamatory.
I want women to stop using sex for gain or as long as prostitution remains illegal. I want compliance with the law universally. Thats it – make prostitutes honest prostitutes like the ones at the Del ray. Vailed prostitues where prostitution is illegal are law breakers. No?
Is it impossible to phathom a woman having sex without ulterior motives?
Ironic I just heard on CNN that the majority of women writers are older with father issues – really!
Hollywood writers are the biggest bunch of prostitutes in the world. You gotta be kidding me. They don’t prostitute their bodies (maybe they do, ha!) they prostitute US culture for personal gain.
Women that have lost touch with their femininity (NOW types) have been bashing men through Hollywood for so long that it no longer matters. Women libbers just cut off their nose to spite (of should I say Sprite) their face. They are too selfish to have children and too egotistical to see the harm they do to the institution of motherhood. Hollywood cultural crap they are creating is affecting Costa Rica big times by changing the family dynamics. Women no longer want the responsibility of a womb. Birth control by abortion is common in the US. What kind of values are those. Yes take the pill but if you get pregnant because you didn’t use protection, then just go ahead and kill the baby… great. Hollywood values. No wonder chivalry is dead and those Hollywood writers from your generation killed it.
Good, bash men and see what kind of sons are raised. But then if women don’t value motherhood then who cares about what kind of adults they become? Some women think they can raise kids by themselves and fatherhood is not important and men’s Neanderthal needs and blah blah blah – most women are out of touch, and hypocritical. Women are now the oppressor just as you criticize men for “getting us to where we are now.” First of all if you look at the big picture, the world has never been better. Or would you like to return to the covered wagon days or medieval times. Men are great! And since you want to make this a man vs woman thing there have been many more great men than woman. I am starting to feel that there is a bad case of penis envy going on here, which is the case with almost all progressive man hating feminist.
Misandry (man hating) has no place in this world. And that especially goes for Hollywood and the utter crap that is decaying morality and perverting traditional values across the world, which by the way is why some people run airplanes into tall buildings. So next time you get fondled by that fat bald old man that cannot get it up at airport security you have your ultra progressive man hating Hollywood whores to thank (men or women). Yes, your friends, the women you speak of have contributed more to the mess we are in than almost anybody has. Hollywood television values pollute the minds of children and teach consumerism and if you look around here in CR it is consumerism that is forcing mommy to leave the home and work because she values a nicer car than staying at home with the kids. They are now Ticans (Ticos with US values) rather than Ticos.
I have gone out of my way not to make this personal or a man vs woman thing but you have gone the opposite way bashing men. There is only so much I cans stands Olive so get me me’s spinach! Take a look in the mirror and ask yourself if the home and family are really better with mommy working. Did you have a stay at home mommy? I didn’t. She worked and let me tell you I was dam envious of my friends that had a loving mother to come home to. So how have your Hollywood type friends helped out by making motherhood uncool? By all those children that come home to the nanny never having the opportunity to feel the love that only a mother can give. Hollywood values and those friends of yours should be ashamed of themselves, as they have decayed society. I don’t care if they are men or women – they suck. I would never be proud to say I was friends with almost anyone from that cancerous cesspool.
Funny how you never wanted to stay on topic regarding illegal prostitution furthering the sex trade when US women prostitute themselves regularly at home and are never charged with a crime in the 49 states where prostitution is illegal. Can’t deal with the hypocrisy of women prostituting themselves at home while street prostitution in the US that furthers the illegal sex trade is illegal?
Now its down to criticizing spelling. And to male slurs (circle jerk). Does you allegiance to the sisterhood preclude fairness and reality? Or is it you know every point I have made is valid and you do not want to accept or admit it. You would rather just stick you head in the sand.
I find your reply offending my intelligence and my gender. And I was just trying to have an authentic conversation and explore this topic, and you reduce it to name calling, trivializing, criticizing spelling and tattletaling to the men haters so they have more “fodder” to use to spread their vile mysandristic spew and further turn women away from stay at home motherhood. Your Hollywood type friends have reduced motherhood to being an egg donor.
Finally by reducing men women also reduce the species they date and with which they reproduce. No wonder so many US women complain they cannot find a manly man any more. Thank your Hollywood buddies that have cut off their noses to Sprite their faces (yes I can spell – as if it matters).
I value your input and who you are, but I am really disappointed in your lack of introspection and authentic dialog regarding this important subject of the illegal sex trade and what I believe to be the essence of it, which is veiled prostitution and illegal prostitution. Until women become humane in their understanding of men’s needs, the illegal sex trade will flourish. I am not referring to Sprites needs which I believes are in the vast minority, but a man’s need to have healthy sex with his partner regularly without having to kiss her ass or buy her something.
The times they are a chagin!
Sad Sprite, very sad. Marrivilla, prostitution is not good or bad it just is, My point which you or sprite do not address is that making it illegal furthers the illegal sex trade. And that it is hypocritical to make it illegal and not prosecute women (or men) who do it at home. Legal in the street and legal at home or illegal in the street and illegal at home.
And yes some men get breast cancer but by inlarge it is a womans diease, The same applies to prostituion, The vast majority or prostitute are women, vields or not. Its a womans disease. The jails would be full if woemen were charged with prostitution for exchanging sex for reward, You know it. So don’t play coy. Sprite you know it too. BTW what are your views about legal or illegal prostitution. Should it be….
BTW it diminishes your point to play the picking on women card. Depending on your POV for better or worse women aint what they used to be.
Versatile regarding your friend I have known many similar cases and that the marry for money and divorce them for more is common. I oerheard a woman gabbing in the bathroom that she was getting older and she had to marry her fortune soon or forget it,
A good friend of mine married and divorced and then married the same soon to be rich man again. She called me to give me the good news and instead of saying how happy she was to reunite their family (with one child) she led with this. “I just secured my financial future.”
If you don’t agree that the majority of women do not asses a man finances before they date him then you may as well look up at the blue sky and tell me that it is pink.
Is the illegal sex trade an important subject?
I am in no way attcking you personally. I am attacking your disregard for the subject of the illegal sex trade.
Vieled prostitution is at the essence, at the heart of the illegal sex trade. I have made my reasonong completely transparent so rebut it.
Don’t say its stupid because its well reasoned argument.
You do not want to engage it because you know it weakens womens ability to get what they want by with holding sex.
When prostitution is illegal, women have a monoply on the availability of sex. It strengtnen the no sex tonight card.
Legal or illegal. One way or another. If its illegal in the street to be compensated for sex it should be ilegal in the bedroom to be compensated for sex, Why the hipocracy?
It not a serious subject because you do not want to talk about it. Ok, then lets just drop it into the not a serious subject cauz marravilla does not want to discuss it recyle bin. Hey I think you are a great woman and person. But we are butting heads here because this is an important subject.
But when it comes to the subject of illegal and legal prostitution and vieled prostitution you have no reply because you know darn well that most women do it. Its wrong but so what. Well I don’t buy into the so what part. This is the era of the level playing field and this field is tilted.
Sprite wins the over 50 Mr cultural values America with the women. Perhaps he could parade around in panties to further amusement. I wonder how he will fare with the men. I would award him a much different honor.
Well I applaud you for having the huevos to at least write. Even though I find your response condescending and above it all.
No other woman has spoken up.
Of course with the 50 generation Sprite is the hero. The 50 generation men lose testosterone and women produce more of it.
Those with 20 to 40 something year old hormone levels feel very different about sex. Also there are women and men who like and dislike sex.
The attitude of I better get something for doing this proves my point that prostitution is everywhere, so why not legalize it.
And yes I thought this topic would bring some scrutiny but to quote the hero your reply is a case of not having a poignant one, so you demean the topic (and men in general). Where are the men-libbers as this is an obviously anti-male statement. But men should suck it up right? Just like when women physically abuse them they should suck it up right? Just like when we are emotionally abused by veiled prostitution they should suck it up right? And make sure there are no legal ways to obtain sex, thus creating a black market that sponsors the sex trade. As I said before legal prostitution takes away the “No sex for you tonight card” therefore woman hate it. And in being so selfish they create the demand for illegal prostitution which fuels the sex trade.
I find your take on this subject as amusing to be undignified, and frivolous at best. I don’t think the “amusing misdirection card” you are playing shows anything but “that just the way it is boys lump it.” That is no better than when women could not vote and men played the same card. Oh isn’t it amusing those little women want to vote. Oh it’s amusing that they want equal pay…. Things change, I say that we either make veiled prostitution illegal or make all forms of prostitution legal. If you are not for that then how about we bring on the Islamic veil. No? but of course women want every advantage and are uninterested in a level playing field as they pretend to be when it comes to giving up sexual leverage. Pure hypocrisy.
I would appreciate a serious/intelligent reply/rebuttal, that is if you have one on the subject of veiled prostitution being legal and overt prostitution being illegal.
And the obvious double standard men are now having to endure regarding abuse and cultural indignities such as men taking a kick to the groin as funny yet you never see a women being kicked in the groin, yet alone viewed as funny.
Go ahead and laugh it off if you want but that just lowers the credibility of your reply.
But a least you have the huevos to reply.
Any of you males got the nuts to opine on subject?
Oh and BTW rwegarding this
“you’re right, sprite. when i see old geezers with young tarts, i think to myself, “i hope for her sake that guy has a lot of money!” As IF she is with him for him winning personality and that comb-over!”
When I see an old guy with a young bimbo who can’t find a job, I think to myself, ”I hope for his sake that she is great in bed because he sure is not with her for the financial security, intelligence and emotional stability.”
Sprite according to your POV – people should not have sex if they are not trying to have children. That is absurd and inflammatory as it is so far from the vast majority of the worlds POV.
You ideas of normal are completely skewed. Abnormality results from what goes apart from natures laws not mans laws. It is quite natural to want sex with every erection. Now is it advisable. Well if we follow your logic, the world population would increase exponentially. After all sex is for procreation.
I suspect you will say according to limits. Now you want to limit sex because there would mean too much population growth. Families with 16 children. Instead, what society has done is created birth control. Why? What for, as we should be having sex to procreate. So who needs birth control if it is preventing the reason we are having sex (children). Is birth control a perversion? Your extreme POV is no more valid than a person that wants sex all the time. Both are off balance and unnatural.
You live in the world according to Garp (Sprite?). That is a fantasy. You offer opinions about a fantasy world which are hardly useful and therefore insulting and inflammatory. Your rhetoric is empty because it is not applicable to realty.
Prostitution runs rampant. My point: You have never done anything for a woman based on her proving sex? If you have not you are part of the tiny minority. Veiled prostitution is the way of the world.
Men’s need and I said need to procreate is taken advantage of by women. It’s a physiological need like breathing, sleeping and eating. Freud documented it well. Women use this need to prostitute themselves in acceptable ways but when it appears on a commercial level (to which it always was) people call foul.
Tell me Sprite what say you on this. Forget your repressed sense or morality regarding sex and apply it to the social ramification and male female relationships. Why should it be legal for women to prostitute themselves indirectly and not directly?
The illegality of prostitution creates sex trafficking.
That is what this thread is about? You high jacked this thread.
So prostitution is practiced in a veiled way all over the world every moment by women having sex for personal material gain. Why then is it illegal for women to have sex for material gain overtly? Repressed sexual attitudes like yours is why – and those attitude enable sex trafficking.
You want to cure sex addiction then provide sex. Eventually the addict will tire of it in most cases and move on to whatever their abusive personality requires next.
Same with drugs. Give the people what they want. If they continue to abuse it then that is their life calling. So what, the good little drones in the US abuse work habits and nobody complains. Women abuse men’s need to procreate with veiled prostitution and nobody complains. Abuse (over use) is part of life. It just is.
However, restricting the ability of the abuser to get the object of their abuse creates crime. Sex trafficking in this case.
Your proposition that everybody should have the same proclivities as yours is preposterous and therefore inflammatory as is the name calling you denounce. You just do it in a veiled way.
Funny how the women on this forum remain silent on veiled prostitution.
Silence is the voice of complicity. So i guess they agree. Sense they agree is vieled prostitution a crime?
So couples who can’t get pregnent should work at it like bunnies and all other people that have children should not have sex any more. When you going to join the real world Sprite, What monastary are you from anyways (and what century?). Thought I would get some mature and sensible feed back on this but all I get is men are wierd for wanting sex and only have sex to reproduce. Wow. I guess no one wants to touch this subject at all… No wonder the world think americans are uptight sexually.
Who is talking young with old? There is plenty of veiled prostitution going on with the under 40 crowd and in committed relationships of all ages. Plenty of young men at the del ray engaging in honest prostitution. Plenty of young men and women engaging in dishonest prostitution in various styles of relationships.
Maravilla, I’d expect more from you rather than the standard feminist line of oh I am a woman so don’t insinuate women use sex to get what they want, as I won’t want to talk about that. Regarding overrated, if you are over 45 then you may have lost your sex drive. Then of course, you may feel it’s over rated. But ask most 30 year old if sex is over rated. Ask add executives if sex is over rated. Ask the fashion industry if sex is over rated. Sex sells, sex motivates and sex may be the primary reason we exist as a species (to reproduce). But as is common when women feel threatened you attack older men with your comb over comment. That was equally as juvenile as much older men with very young women. But haven’t telivison values championed juvenile behavior for the last 50 years? Now from Sprite I get it, “No one over 40 should have sex.”That eunuch point of view is archaic. And some have been neutered or lost their sex dive at a certain age of have been enslaved by their mate and withheld from sex so long that they no longer care. Sex is healthy and men should have sex at least twice a week (Dr Oz) in their committed relationship or outside it if they can swing it or afford it.
But to disregard my point about veiled prostitution and prostitution in general and how prostitution helps reduce sexual urges and keeps the male population more in balance with remarks about soap opera sexual urges and old men with young women basically means that you have no valid rebuttal to veiled prostitution and you validate my point that it is a taboo subject and that women do not want to discuss this honestly because there are millions of women engaging in this all the time.
Veiled prostitution is completely accepted and mainstream, that is many women are going to make men pay for sex one way or the other. Here in Costa Rica veiled prostitution has lost its fire power and is not as much of a problem as in the US because men know that if their partner with holds sex to get what she wants men can always go to honest prostitution to fulfill their needs.
I guess I expected too much from you. But women have a strong common bond and those “male oppressors” deserve what they get, right? Resorting to comments about over rated and old with young adds nothing to the discussion of what may be the largest instances of emotional violence in the world, which is veiled prostitution, because it is dishonest. It may also help fuel the sex enslavement trade which provides prostitutes for underground prostitution.
Its emotional violence to manipulate by with holding sex in a relationship to get what you want, whether a man or woman does it. You don’t see men doing it often because of the different ways men and women are built. When it comes to a major card women play all the time, I guess I should not expect women to be honest and forthright about discussing it. Again, it’s bad for business. It’s also a sad commentary about the weakness of western males that they consistently cave into their mates wishes when they with hold sex from them. “You aren’t getting any tonight” is a mainstream phrase that should be politically incorrect. Just as veiled prostitution should be illegal where honest prostitution is illegal.
But we all know that when it comes to male female relationships and black white relationships there is a double standard. It’s common to see a woman strike a man in the groin on a situation comedy and the laugh track happens. But do you ever see a man strike a woman in the groin and the laugh track happens? Its all part of the enslavement and emasculation of men.
One of the great things about Costa Rica is that men so far have not bought into the “men are animals and therefore bad” so let’s castrate them (literally and figuratively). Some men are so sexually dysfunctional from female emotional violence that for all practical purposes they have castrated themselves. You know who you are…
Hey maybe a new slogan for CR” “Costa Rica where a man can be a man!” A place where it’s still cool to have a penis!
Of course it vieled prostitution whan a man does it.
Look I am not talking matters of life or death here.
However, you not being a man and with all due respect because I admire the kind of woman you are, you don’t understand the urgency of it all.
You may not die from it but its the most motivating factor of human existence (procreation) and men are said to think about it at least 14 times a day. I think sex is pretty primal to existence, so I think the analogy is valid.
Wiating for your astute/interesting reply.
Women take advangtage of this and its socially acceptable and condoned through television values etc etc.
