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Diego I don’t think it is necessary to slam Gringos so generally. – I am not slamming Gringos, I am a Gringo! I am saying that disrespect among many Gringas toward Gringos it at a nauseating level. I am for a happy medium and respecting and appreciate each other’s traits/genetic predispositions. Gringas by the truckload are not doing this.
These masculine and feminine traits you worship are only as “good” as the culture in which they have come from.
Exactly, and the traditional American culture found in the heartland of the U.S. is still good. But the card carrying ACLU members, the Hollywood producers of mind numbing and horrifying movies that center relentlessly on either sex or violence has corrupted the culture. Did I mention rampant materialism and the lack of a parent in the home (Most homes have both parents working: why? So they can have more material items). How about driving older cars, going to the park instead of the amusement park on the weekends so preferably either mom (since she held the child for 9 month and bonded by breast feeding and nurturing for two years) or dad can stay home with the child.
Our northern society is more transparent than yours and woman who are beaten/abused can seek the protection of the law (no it’s not perfect). In many “muchisimo” cultures woman have no choice except to bear it(although there appears to be a growing women’s rights movement in C.R.) and stay in line.
Plenty of men suffer the same problem this is an antiquated argument a pro woman prejudiced belief.
How many men in Latin countries feel it is alright that they have affairs, but what if the woman was bored with her man and went looking for something on the side?
This happens all the time in the US.
I think you know the answer to that…My girlfriend is a strong intelligent very beautiful woman, and she appreciates my masculine quality’s and romancing her etc…She would not be happy being told how to run her life, me having affairs, out with the boys
Does you girlfriend think the same about you, if she does, you have a great relationship. My point is Gringo men have fallen into this goddess worshiping thing that all they care about is their woman and have no time for fellowship with other men. You know Gringa women want to keep men at home with then=m and going out with the boys is taboo. You see gangs of girls all dressed up for each other in US bars that all have boyfriends or husbands out on Saturday night. Face it the pants have changed. You sound like you have been a victim of feminization.
with no regard to her etc..and I would not want to treat another human being as anything but my “equal”, and please don’t tell why we can not be equals; men are bigger, less emotional, fight all the wars.
Wow you sure blow over that one like it was nothing, I dare say you have never been at war, that was spoken like a woman who has never been in war. Although war is not fashionable it was war that liberated Europe and bestowed us with the bill of rights and US constitution that our too tired from working two job so we can buy more culture is permitting these hard fought for rights to slip away. Why, so we can go buy a sports car to attract women, so we can keep the malls 90% filled with women’s clothes. Female vanity is completely unbalanced in the US period.
Also the racism card you use in no way applies to this cultural discussion. Its not about race, it’s about behavior.
Sorry, but you do sound kinda like a girly-man. BTW drawing the line by being treated fairly and with respect have been what these posts are all about and Gringa do not do that after all like Maravella’s post prove, the I am Woman superior mind set is well ingrained, as shown by you Lotus, which is kind of a feminine name for a man. Did not mean to insult, just making an observation.Maravilla,
You need to get off your high horse, I wouldn’t want you to get a nose bleed. You remarks regarding battered men were way out of line and again illustrate my point of “hiding behind the skirt.” I know many men that have suffered the scares of being attacked by women but since the laws are slanted to protect the “weaker sex,” and due to antiquated bias, such as you have exhibited, they go unrecognized because has Scott has pointed out men do not report them.
Broodmare? Another one of you vailed hostilities toward tradition. Just like the guised comnnotations of “you are funny Diego.” I do not think any of this is funny, except maybe you point of view. Funny in the fact that this unatural “I an woman” thing has become main stream and seen as balanced, instead of extreme. Femanazism must end.
Regarding Gringa datig: The issue is much larger than a Gringa getting a date in CR. It is the crux of the terrorism problem (not oil) as the rest of the world does not want us to export or degenerate music, lifestyle and macho women.
Here we have the smartest most innovative country in the world with some of the hardest working peole and we have achived it at the expense of making women men. Its a shame. And as Scott so elequently points out, smart educated Ticas display their capabilities and still retain feminine qualities. Whcih is a turn on to me. Also I very much like the fact that many nice Tica women live with their famlies until they get married.
It would be easy to ahow chiverlary to such honorable people. There are very few Gringas I would open a door for. Open ou own doors if you want to exhibtthe masculine side of your self. You gringas could learn alot about femininity from Ticas and Columbianas and Brazilanias.
You gals are not playing nice. We all know it is you who run things, spend the money. We men live for you, came from you, can you not at least humor us by pretending to others that we are the head of the family. Have you read proper care and feeding of Husbnds – maybe you should spend some more time in the kitchen, our would you materialistic needs suffer. Heaven forbid!
Equal pay? How can you get equal pay for something only you can do – have babies. How come you are not having babies? Japan can’t keep up nor most of Europe or the non-latino US. It is the disregard for motherhood from the “educated” US females that I am pointing out, do you have kids Maavilla?
Before tradition is changed one must know tradition. US men and women are changing things at the expense of losing tradition. I like the “men have made a complete debacle out of things” comment and your superior attitude, that prety much shows were your head is at. Thats an anti-male thing right there, its part of the sick culture of the US. Other cultures have a lot of problems with us exporting our sick culture, hence you have airplanes being ran into buildings.
You inherent ditzing of your husband and your superior attitude apitomizes my point. I an tired of the male bashing no matter how ingrained it is to Gringas.
What children are likly to leave a door open, and they are dirty and smell, wow, I can’t be bothered. I have to fight the status Quo, on to bigger and better things!!
You don’t know what’s important, don’t feel bad the majority of the US doesn’t know either.
Does americanized mean feminized, emasculated, metro males?
Funny how you Gringa gals spout the virtues of all the docker wearing american men with thier clean shaven political correctness and secretly yearn for a masculine outlaw stud to follow through hell or high water.
I agree with you advice. Gringas stay out and on top of that, if you are here go back to the land of where you can treat men like dirt, disrespect them and then use the law to hide behind, or can flip them off on the highway without thoughts of repercussion. Someplace where you can be a man and also hide behind your skirt when necessary. The funny thing about your behaviors is that men allow and accept them (I use the word “men” here with reservation).
It is really a sad comentary on the US male society that men accept and encourage women to exhibit masculine traights. No wonder there is so much gay and lesbeian activities.
So let me sarcastically appoligies for my insensitive political incorrectness, after all I am in Costa Rica, not the US so I feel more than a right to be free, politically incorrect and frank.
Hope you can handle it, if not go get a US attorney a sue me. Ha!
Makohan, do you have children?
I rest my case. Americam women do not want to be bothered with children. Too busy fighting the status quo.
Do you think Ticos pay Tico attorneys according to the real priced paid? I think there has to ba a happy medium.
Maybe they do not want to be paid a percentage of $4,000 but with houses selling for $200,000 I think $2,500 to register your sale is excessive.
Is not there a middle ground?
What say you?
