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I swear, this has got to be the biggest group of grumps I’ve ever come across. AlbertoB actually nailed it here, this seriously is a bitter group of posters. And no I’m not confusing bitter with “informed.”
The general sentiment I’m reading here is “I’m jealous of all who haven’t suffered like I have, and refuse to believe there’s an easier way. Anyone exhibiting happiness or a relaxing lifestyle without having suffered through hardship to get there is a cheater.”
What happened to live and let live? Why is the story of two young people not enjoying the working life so unrealistic? I’ve worked full time 9-5 corporate jobs as well, and you know what, they suck. The same routine every day, working with people you cant stand, human resources, climbing the corporate ladder, battling for promotions, political correctness, casual fridays (express yourself by wearing blue jeans!), and a whopping 2 weeks of vacation each year, hooray!
Excuse me while I throw up…..and then shoot myself.
Maybe it’s just me, but why would anyone aspire to doing that, especially for 30+ years? So you can have a comfortable retirement? Health insurance? A new car? I thought the article made total sense, why sacrifice all the time of your youth in order to enjoy life later? Just because we’re taught to do that, and our parents did that, and everyone else does that, does not mean anyone “has” to do that. The US has a perfect system in place for educating and creating worker bees, and I commend anyone for breaking free from it at any age. And as Alberto mentioned, its a hell of a lot easier to do it in your 20’s as nothing’s tying you down that early in life.
I honestly wish I had their insight and same desire for happiness when I was younger. I didn’t wake up and start making my life what I wanted until much later. And yeah, dealing with the various anchors in life is far more difficult the older you get, as is giving up many of the daily comforts you grow accustomed to.
In regards to Sprite’s comment “The more work and commitment involved, the more satisfying and the more commendable.” I see your point, but disagree whole heartedly in this case. Whats commendable here is the fact this couple recognized early on that the 9-5 working life wasn’t for them, and got out. I think its far more commendable that they DIDN’T waste 30-40 years working before deciding to enjoy life. I would actually feel sorry for them if they had, as I do for most worker bees.
Also, its not like they “gave up” anything by coming out here. Corporate America isn’t going anywhere. If their life here turns out terrible for some reason, they can just go back to the US, go to work again, and resume their previous lives. Corporate jobs will always be there, and as long as you’re not borderline retarded, it’s pretty easy to get one. (Although maybe I’m biased because I’ve had to interview people before and know how hard it is to find someone halfway decent, regardless of the economic conditions.)
The only thing not fully disclosed here is the current source of income for these people. Well as Scott mentioned in the previous thread on this article, there is a certain right to privacy that should be respected. This couple shared their story, presented a lifestyle that’s not “conventional” or “normal” like people here are accustomed to seeing, and anyone reading it should be appreciative. Maybe its just me, but instantly asking them how they make their money isnt really appropriate, or anyone elses business.
To the bitter people on this board, why cant you just accept that some people have easy lives, and enjoy them on a day to day basis? If they’re so wrong, and your method of working, waiting, suffering, and planning is so right, they just sit back relax and let time tell the tale. You should be able to rest assured knowing you’re doing the right thing, and not feel the need to make accusations of “unrealistic pipe dreams.” Its not anyone’s job here to say what can or cant be done in life, just take care of yourself, those you care about, and leave it at that.
I normally dont waste the free time I have spewing out negativity from every orifice on my body, but it seems some here just cant help it. I hope for your sake you take some time to be happy in Costa Rica, instead of just accusing other people of screwing it up for you. If anything is screwed up for you, take a look at your own actions first.
Live and let live people….
